Thursday, February 7, 2013

Rule #19 Always ask students to be specific in a discipline interview. They don’t lie well.


As we know assistant principals wear many hats. In particular at a high school you sometimes have to play detective, like those Law and Order guys. My favorite is Detective Robert Goren (Criminal Intent). He has a way of playing the interviewees emotions and staying ahead of the answer he is looking for, using mind tricks to manipulate and more importantly understanding human nature.

In interviewing a student in an alleged drug issue, theft, fight, etc. can be quite be tricky. You want to allow due process, but at the same time you want to find the guilty party, and it can turn into a game of cat and mouse. 

In the beginning of the investigation you have to be patient. It is important to interview suspects and/or parties in the matter, and get exact details from them. It is a good strategy to take notes. When interviewing you want to get them to be specific about their location, the time, their specific actions, what they might have said, their motives, and any communication by phone. If you are unsure about something they said, then ask again but in a different manner, here is the point your gut instincts might kick in, and you might catch them in a lie.

I honestly believe young people and their communication skills have a difficult time keeping a lie on track, to their parents or to administrators. Especially if you keep pressing. The key though is patience. Another key element is interviewing all the parties, and then using information from one to another student, and trying to tie up loose ends in their story.  As a police officer or a trial lawyer might say, they don't ask any question they may know the answer to already. The trick is having the right information. 

Students can make 15 minutes look like an hour or 2 minutes. They speak in generalities in their story telling. Be specific in your questioning, and you will get success in catching a culprit and protecting your campus culture, climate and safety. 

Joe







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